China's anti-graft inspection bring changes
百度 说詹姆斯是东部之王一点都不为过，他所在的球队已经连续七个赛季杀入总决赛了，如今双塔给力，也给了骑士更多逆袭的可能。
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What is the best (or at least appropriate) way to deal with "AI slop" messages, emails and requests?
For some reason, a culture has developed at my company where people are almost exclusively sending their requests, emails, instant messages and other communication using LLM generated text.
We are a ...
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Is it a good idea to refer a good friend who is looking for cofounders for his project to another good friend of mine if I care about our friendship? [closed]
A friend of mine has started a startup where he wants to develop a very technical product that requires quite a bit of expertise in cloud solutions. He asked me if I knew anyone who might be ...
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Dealing with my own behaviour after an unpleasant afterwork hangout
I've been working in a Dutch company for a few months now, and last Friday, a group of my colleagues invited me to hangout with them in a bar near the office. This time exceptionally, I accepted to go ...
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Can I Ever Become a Decent Programmer?
I have recently been reflecting on my frustrations in trying to become a better programmer, in particular thinking about what Jeff Atwood has said on the issue here and here. He quotes Bill Gates ...
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How to deal with ADHD/EFD
From the young age , I had to study the same passage repeatedly than others and I had to revise what I read more than others and I always had difficulty paying attention in class.
But while working I ...
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How to manage emotions (low mood) while accepting the suboptimal design? [closed]
I am developer and I am the first one who sees that the some design decisions (in which I participate and which I implement later) can be bad from the technical point of view, i.e. they increase the ...
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Should my partner report that his friend was driving under the influence to their boss? [closed]
My partner has had a new job for just under a year now. The company is small and has about 50 employees.
My partner handed over his friend's CV. Friend gets an offer letter for the job. My boyfriend ...
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What do you do if you are not sure how to complete a task that you were not properly trained on?
So in my job, they let go one of my co-workers, and now I have to take over some of her tasks.
However, that person they let go only showed me once how to do one of her task that I am assigned to, and ...
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How to participate in discussions on company strategy / culture when you may be leaving (and your boss knows)?
I work at a small software start-up (~5 employees, started 4 years ago). I knew my bosses already personally before joining about 2 years ago. Most of us have basically only development experience, ...
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How to fix difficulty admitting I'm wrong?
Recently a co-worker has helped me identify an issue in myself: I have difficulty admitting I'm wrong.
Does anyone have experience with a similar issue and how did you solve it?
I'd love any ideas, ...
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Dealing with a "childish" colleague [closed]
So to set the scene, I am in a small, local business that is run by myself, and a partner (Bob). We have a mentor/retired colleague (Dave) that does help us with learning things like business ...
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Dealing with Needy and Self-Centered Coworker
I have been in my current position for about a year and a half now (have been with the organization for closer to 4 years) and my coworker was hired shortly after I got this position for a supporting ...
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Is it ok to put your name in a website you made for a client for free
A bit of context first,
We (Software company) made a mobile app for a client, but the client didn't have the budget to make a homepage for it to promote the app
Our employer said we're free to make ...
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How can I keep my ex-boss out of my life? [closed]
I started working with a small firm about an year ago. I loved my job until my boss started controlling everything I did. She was never satisfied with anything that I did and was constantly pointing ...
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How to tolerate coworkers who write crappy code? [closed]
I'm a senior software engineer working for a tech company. I've been in the same company for more than two years. There are lots of interesting problems to solve that I love.
I'm super happy to have ...
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